Can i ever get married
Posted by meenasehgal on 11/8/2006 at 2:08 AM
Hello folks! I am Meena and I was born blind. I am now 32 years old. I am a graduate and am able to earn my livelihood. But my present conditions are depressing and i want to settle down in life and get married. But i dont see any hope because i want to marry a blind person...i do not want to marry a sighted person bcos one day he might get judgemental about me!!! Can i ever get married??????
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Re: Can i ever get marriedPosted by michaeldchandler on 12/3/2014 at 4:13 AM
Why are you limiting yourself? If two people love each other, it will happen -- regardless. It's been happening for centuries.
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by 1TrueEarthMama on 12/18/2011 at 2:19 PM
Oh. My. God. What the heck is with you people? Limiting your self to something like that is just ridiculous and close-minded. That's like saying "I'll only date someone who's black, or Deaf, or tall or, insert adjective." That's an extremely sheltered view and it sounds like you have absolutely no self esteme. Here's a news flash, a sighted guy could love you for who you are, and a blind guy could be judgemental and cheet on you. The quality of a man has nothing to do with whether he can see or not. You, as a blind person should know better. With self esteme like that you're never going to find anyone, blind or sighted, or you'll wind up in an abusive relationship. I am marrying a man who is sighted. We have a 3 year old son together, and no, he doesn't take care of me and do all the work, but neither does he judge me or treat me poorly. Honestly, if I showed your post to him, he'd be sickened. If he met you before me, I guarintee you he'd never date you, not because you're blind, but because poor self esteme is majorly not attractive, hun. Also, someone else mentioned blind people not being judgemental about appearance. Where did you get that crap? I have standards and preferences. For instance, I am just not attracted to bald men, I find nice healthy hair a huge turn on, also men who are substantial, not super skinny or boney who can give good hugs. I prefer men with dark hair, I love blue eyes, and so on. To say that blind people don't have preferences/opinions is to say that they have no standards, and that is disgusting and abelest. I just don't understand you people. Fortunately my son, who is also blind has a few really good role models who are blind, because if he didn't, and I read this board it might scare me away from ever encouraging him to interact with blind people.
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by smilismschool on 2/25/2011 at 9:33 AM
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can i know how a blind person can fall in love.Posted by kllywangmo on 7/11/2010 at 2:29 AM
i would like to know how do a blind person falls in love..is it by voice or by touch?
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by tarehborn on 7/7/2010 at 8:03 AM
I like be get marry .. just I know I am 25 year's Old ... can be speak English and 3 language more ... honestly I like be find my Love from other country ... never drink ... never smoking .. never get marry ... like be travel all of the world ... always on the Way ..
with best regards ... I know my life is test & try best and Traveling ..... wish can be have rest with you some few days ... for ever ..
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by Roses on 3/3/2009 at 12:31 AM
I don't think you should restrict yourself to marrying a blind person just because you underestimate yourself. A blind person can misjudge you too.
Have faith in yourself and search for love and go for it whether you find it with a blind person or sighted one unless you have other reasons to prefer to marry a blind person. May God give you happiness. Thanks
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Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by smilismschool on 12/12/2007 at 11:21 AM
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I am near 30 and a man of loneliness who has not experienced relationship with of this sort with female.
Can i ever get marriedPosted by kevlin on 11/10/2007 at 8:45 AM
i am a deaf how can i get married in life that is why am here to see someone that will love and care for me
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by cavaliers74 on 11/6/2007 at 1:34 PM
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Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by angelina on 8/20/2007 at 6:42 AM
Hi, don't worry, you'll see, some day you'll find the man that suits your expectations! However, do not restrict your choices to blind people onle; I'm blind too, and I'm not engaged as well, but, to be honest, I'd prefer a sighted person, not because I have something against those like me, not at all, but I do think that those who are not visually impaired can give you a hand; you know, we are people who need more attentions than others because we need more help. And, you know what, if somebody wants to betray it doesn't matter if he or she is blind or not!!! Regards
Dont worryPosted by Lavenderjoy on 6/16/2007 at 1:42 PM
I understand how u feel but maybe it will be good to have friends and see where things lead.Dont restrict yourself to VI people only. I know a good web site add that is free for women.If u are interested do mail me. Well due to a lot of scammers the ladies have to pay a very small fee nowdays.It hardly cost anything but if u are interested send me a mail. I just joined about 3 weeks ago.The site is for disabled peope. My email is email@example.com.Take care now and dont worry my dear. God Bless.Su
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by Nobody on 2/22/2007 at 3:42 AM
I am sorry but isn't it better to marry who you fall in love with and not pick from whatever group you choose, like you should marry whoever you love whether they are blind or deaf, fat or skinny, white or black, none of these things should be criteria for finding a mate, If I was in love with you then your blindness is part of what makes me love you and I would never judge you or use that against you in ANY way, be cause I DO love you not because I am blind or not
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by Winnie on 2/17/2007 at 11:37 PM
I hope so . . . I would like to meet and possibly marry a blind man, someone who is in academics or the arts. I have no idea how to meet someone in this instance. Perhaps someone might know a man who would not be against the idea of a sighted girlfriend. I have a doctorate and would to be with an educated man . . .
Winnie at firstname.lastname@example.org
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by nicci on 2/17/2007 at 3:07 PM
i would love to marry a blind person. i love the feeling that it doesn't matter what i look like. they would love u no matter what a person looks like. at least my ex didn't and he is blind
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by nicci on 12/9/2006 at 4:30 PM
i think u could. i live by a person who is deaf and he is married to a deaf person. so i think it is possible. I have been dating someone who is blind for about 4 weeks. I just hope down the road he will ask me to marry him. we do love each other a lot. He amazes me a lot with every thing he does. Plus he has changed my life in different ways. I look at myself and think i am good enough. He means the world to me. I know we haven't been dating long but i can see myself married to him and having his kids. so i think it is possible for u to marry someone blind or not blind. who knows. bye
Re:Can i ever get marriedPosted by talksalot on 11/24/2006 at 1:52 PM
i am 16 so i dont know but you could go on mesage bords like this one. or a dating website or go out and try to date that way im sure you will get someone!
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