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Popularity going down the drain!

I was the most popular girl because everyone was my friend and all the guys liked me until this new girl came and i felt bad for her so i invited her to my birthday party. Since everyone knew she was my friend they all wanted to be hers and all the guys liked her now!! All my "friends" hang out with more instead of me. Im still popular but im the under dog what should i do to destroy her and bring me back to the top?

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u shouldn't be so rude. if they were ur friends they would like u and be around u. so i guess u were not as well liked as u thought.


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It really annoys me when I see a post like this. I have no idea what grade you are in, but you should really reconsider your mindset. The simple answer to your question is just to be yourself. Our society has really gone down the drain with this mindset of "who is the most popular". Never ever try to "destroy" her. Be yourself and as stated above me it is extremely rude to try to become the most popular. When you start double downing other people or putting people down or even having negative thoughts they show in your personality. Be yourself. Personally who cares who is the ost popular. In elementary school always a group of girls would always be around me but I don't care and didn't back then. If people don't like you for some reason, then reevaluate your aditude. Popularity comes in blurts and means nothing. If I was in your school I'd try to stay very far away from you. Might sound like your normal everyday rresponse to one of these questions but its the truth. The technicalities of it go like this.

When one starts acting a certain way and that person doesn't realize it, it is generally because the unconscious mind has been influenced by someone that person might be around or that person has gotten so immune to the way they are perceived it goes to their head.

In simple terms:

Don't be self centered. If tv, newspapers and other things were taken away I bet 100% you'd see a change in personality - we rely on these things and to a big extent they influence who we are.

Ok bottom line is quit being ignorant! It really bugs people like me!

Cody, 16, pennsylvania


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That is a mean thing to say. Just because you became a little less popular, there is no reason to play off your negative feelings on another girl.

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Don't try. Find friends who like you for who you are. Let the new winner of the popularity contest keep her position without knocking it. Life is actually a real love contest, not a popularity contest.


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That isvso true


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Seeking attention and popularity is a sign of weakness. Ture happiness is achieved when we don't try to seek attention from others. Also people don't like those that are always trying to win them over. Show kindness and love and feel love for your friends, those that are popular and those that are not so popular just my two cents
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Seeking attention and popularity is a sign of weakness. Ture happiness is achieved when we don't try to seek attention from others. Also people don't like those that are always trying to win them over. Show kindness and love and feel love for your friends, those that are popular and those that are not so popular just my two cents
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