18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional vision
Posted by horsegal2012 on 11/1/2012 at 1:15 PM
hey my name is Alison I am 18 and I will be 19 in february I would like to make some friends on here who understand some of the things I have to deal with and will not judge me and the same thing applies for the guy lol
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Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by Ishrey on 11/1/2012 at 4:53 PM
Hello im live n california hispanic male
What can u tell me about yourself
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 11/2/2012 at 4:23 PM
I was born 3 months premature which caused complications but I am extremely blessed I have good vision in my left eye and minimal vision in my right eye also I love to read I am a huge twilight fan I used to ride horses and hope to do it again soon and I don't tell a lot of ppl this but I really enjoy sims games
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by Ishrey on 11/2/2012 at 4:47 PM
Oh kool how did you here about this sight? So do u live n california? Sims, :) played it a few times kool game
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 11/2/2012 at 6:49 PM
I have been going to a center for blind and visually impaired and they told me about this site to help me learn job skills I do not live there but I visited LA over the summer and stayed with some friends
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by ashimp on 11/2/2012 at 10:24 PM
"Good functional vision."
Curses, foiled again!
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 11/3/2012 at 6:23 PM
What is ur vision like?
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by ashimp on 11/3/2012 at 7:19 PM
Nowhere near functional. I've got a little light perception and color but that's it. I do all of my activities as though I were total.
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 11/4/2012 at 11:08 PM
Were u born with ur vision loss or was it a gradual thing?
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by ashimp on 11/6/2012 at 4:18 AM
I was born with it, it's genetic. It's been getting worse over time though. I used to be able to use a CCTV, but no longer I am afraid.
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 11/7/2012 at 10:14 AM
what are your fave things and interests what do you do in your spare time?
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by ashimp on 11/29/2012 at 2:51 AM
I enjoy reading... a lot. I also play a trading card game, and very, very, VERY rarely I'll go on a hike or something with friends. I also bowl and play a little piano.
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by horsegal2012 on 12/10/2012 at 1:02 PM
cool sorry I was not able to reply until now been having internet problems I LOVE to read too what are your favorite books?
Hey were r u located n what do u look like?Posted by Ishrey on 12/22/2012 at 8:09 AM
Im from california and hispanic
I'm in the same situation. Looking for friends.Posted by Blake T on 1/5/2013 at 8:25 PM
I'm 17. I have light perception in one eye. I also do all my activities as if I were total. Anyone around my age who is blind, my skype is Blake.tracy1. It says I'm 40. My mom set it up and Im afraid to change it. My skype lies.
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by country girl101 on 3/1/2013 at 9:23 PM
hi my name is abby. I'm 19 now and I'm looking for good friends feel free to add me on msn my msn is abbylcochran
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by country girl101 on 3/1/2013 at 9:27 PM
you can also e-mail me at the above adress
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by SensuallyNaturallyLiving4Today on 4/5/2013 at 6:55 PM
Hello. I would be happy to be your friend if you'd like. I am 26 years old and female. I am married and have a son who is 4, use a seeing eye dog, and have a wide network of friends. I have friends from my first college who are around my age, friends from my current college who are 18 to around 20 and we have married couple friends who range from their mid twenties to their fifties. I've dealt with the craptastic dating scene as a blind woman, am active in all sorts of service dog handler rights and disability rights arinas, including but not limited to blindness. I am honest, realistic, totally candid but humerous and am happy to give advice or just listen, and I'll try to fill whatever female friend shoes you're looking to have filled, mentor, gal pal, big sister sort of thing, or just a soundingboard for your ideas. I was a high partial as a young child, a low partial in my teens and am now pretty much a total. I am a social work student looking into becoming a couples or family counsilor. Here is a basic list of some areas I am active in, advocate for, have studied or like to mentor in or share with others: disability rights, women's rights, minority rights, GLBT rights, psychology, sociology, human sexuality, anthropology, world culture, travel, attachment parenting, breastfeeding, cloth diapering, sustainable practices, green living, local organic food, pregnancy and birth, natural child birth, freedom of sexual information, sexual liberation, women's reproductive health issues, relationship improvement/counsiling, writing, including fanfiction, poetry, national novel writing month, blogging, journaling and erotica, dog training, dog breeding/showing, white water rafting, hiking, camping, perfume oils and scented products, home improvement/decoration (I, not my sighted husband, have taken over the decorating of our home and I painted our living room with a little help from our handy-man) volinteering with the homeless, teen mothers and with children of all ages, and the list goes on. Oh, I've read Twilight. I know there's a huge debate ranging from "They're complete crap" to "They're the best thing ever." I think they are quite good for young adult fantasy fiction. Not the best thing I've ever read in my entire life, but not bad, enjoyable to read. I also enjoy all sorts of books from high brow accademic phylosophy books to self help/self improvement books to fantasy, to the classics, to horror to plane old formulaic smutt like Nora Roberts to poetry to shakesperian plays, so we could probably find some books in common and introduce one another to some interesting new books. Nice to meet you, and if you're interested in chatting, just reply here and I'll send you my email address. Oh, one last thing. I would highly highly urge you to change your wording/expectations from wanting a "man with functional vision" to a compitant functional man regardless of his vision. I know some high partial men, some sighted men who are total mamas boys, who can't think for themselves, let alone cook, clean or do for themselves, and I know totally blind men who hold down 9 to 5 jobs, are wonderful husbands and fathers and do all of the major manly tasks around the house, are socially compitant, caring people and wonderful in bed. So, whatever reason it is that you are limiting your self to men with "functional" vision, you might do better to make compitance and independence your criteria, which opens you up to sighted men and totally blind men. Because how they live and what they can do for themselves and for you and your potential future family and household together is the important thing. Take care.
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by Spirittribe on 4/8/2013 at 2:08 AM
I might be a little too old for you, but I've been checking in and out of this site for a few years hoping to find a girl by the name of Nancy I saw on television asking me by my name that she would marry me. You see, I have a loving blind aunt who still lives and for that reason I would marry someone like her with the same disability. Other than that I might be growing a little too old and might have to just marry a normal person. Everything seems to be falling in place for me though, in education and work... I just don't understand why I just can't seem to find this girl who I believe is from Canada. I've dreamed a lot of her and even my mother is aware of the situation, and as long as she's a good girl she finds it okay to marry her. It might sound far-fetched but with God anything, even miracles are possible. Not to sound harsh, but I've had a lot of luck with girls since I was a baby boy... so I hope she understands if I find someone else because I don't want to die alone since I deserve to be happy and it is not my mistake to follow my teacher's orders and open my heart to a disabled person (its only a positive trait). I'm still a very, very innocent person BTW :D What would I say to her if she was reading this? Please don't forget who you are, who you were, who you still continue to be, and that I am a normal person with the highest of self-esteem who believes is doing the right thing and following what God wants us to do. As I attend church, I only think of you in the highest place of that cross as I pray and only wish good for either of us, both of us. Amado te ama con mucho amor y amando a Dios siempre hara:D
- Amado Castaneda
Re: 18 year old girl looking for friends and a guy with good functional visionPosted by Adel34 on 4/27/2013 at 8:57 AM
Hi. My name is Sam. I'm a 24 year old girl and totally blind. I would love to be you or anyone's friend on here. I have a bachilors in counseling psychology, love singing, reading, making youtube videos and advocating for resources for the blind as well as those with mental health issues.
I'm on several e-mail lists that I think are great: blind-family to discuss family life, blind-friends, blindpenpals and probably a few more.
If anyone wants to e-mail me it's firstname.lastname@example.org
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